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The funeral… | February 5, 2024

Yesterday, we buried my mother.

The feelings of conflict were tremendous.

Super sad. Half way funny.

Then came lunch and a ton of different stories.

Like the happy one which I’ll share with you now…

When I was in fifth grade, I got sent home with a note to my parents, accusing me of plagiarism.

My parents called me into their room that evening…

(which was always a bad sign when you were signaled out from your sibs),

and they asked me about the poem and where I found it.

I told them I found it in my heart and recited it.

They were dumbstruck.

I went on to be accused of plagiarism, but not before my mother went out and bought me this wonderful notebook.

It said “Scribbles” and had a special “poetry” pen attached.

From then on, I was off. 

And the rest is history.

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13 Comments »

  1. Flower Roberts's avatar

    I understand the conflicting feelings. I love this story.

    Condolences

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    Comment by Flower Roberts — February 5, 2024 @ 10:24 AM

  2. Phylis Feiner Johnson's avatar

    Thank you, Flower. Sometimes the feelings are overwhelming.

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    Comment by Phylis Feiner Johnson — February 5, 2024 @ 10:38 AM

  3. Mary Ellen Gambon's avatar

    Oh, Phylis, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. But what an inspiring story you shared about her! I am in tears.

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    Comment by Mary Ellen Gambon — February 5, 2024 @ 10:39 AM

  4. Phylis Feiner Johnson's avatar

    Smiles, laughter, aren’t they sometimes the same?

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    Comment by Phylis Feiner Johnson — February 5, 2024 @ 10:43 AM

  5. Nancy's avatar

    Sending sincere condolences! Great story ! Powerful !

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    Comment by Nancy — February 5, 2024 @ 11:00 AM

  6. 17mwatson's avatar

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Condolences to you and your family. It’s wonderful that you had joyful memories to share as well. Keep those close by when the grief gets overwhelming.

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    Comment by 17mwatson — February 5, 2024 @ 11:06 AM

  7. Marilyn Markham Petrich's avatar

    I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s really tough to lose a loving mother. What a great story! So inspiring. ❤️❤️

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    Comment by Marilyn Markham Petrich — February 5, 2024 @ 11:24 AM

  8. Hetty Eliot's avatar

    I’m so sorry Phylis.

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    Comment by Hetty Eliot — February 6, 2024 @ 1:02 AM

  9. Ed Lugge's avatar

    I’m sorry for your loss. It’s important to remember the positive side and stories. I lost my sister and mother in my junior and senior year of high school. The important part was I felt they were right there for me and they’re still there. 

    Keep thinking about your mother’s good side so any bad things take a back seat and go away with time.

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    Comment by Ed Lugge — February 6, 2024 @ 10:00 AM

  10. Phylis Feiner Johnson's avatar

    Ed, it’s wonderful that you have such rich memories and that they live with you even today.

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    Comment by Phylis Feiner Johnson — February 6, 2024 @ 10:44 AM

  11. Daniel Vincent's avatar

    Phillys, you have my deepest sympathies. I send my thoughts and prayers to you and your loved ones. 🙏❤️

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    Comment by Daniel Vincent — February 6, 2024 @ 4:14 PM

  12. Phylis Feiner Johnson's avatar

    Thanks so much, Daniel.

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    Comment by Phylis Feiner Johnson — February 6, 2024 @ 4:18 PM

  13. Amy Ketterer's avatar

    I pray for God to grant you strength. Rest assure, you will see her again and until that time hold the good memories in your heart ❤️

    Amy Ketterer

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    Comment by Amy Ketterer — February 7, 2024 @ 9:25 AM


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    I've been a professional copywriter for over 35 years. I also had epilepsy for decades. My mission is advocacy; to increase education, awareness and funding for epilepsy research. Together, we can make a huge difference. If not changing the world, at least helping each other, with wisdom, compassion and sharing.

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