Comments on: Who is your personal hero?

By: Ruth Brown

Ruth Brown — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 22:22:59 +0000

Hi Debbie, I am very sorry that you and your son has had to go through this. My sister outgrew her epilepsy in her teenage years. She lived a normal life.

You are a great mom!! You are your son’s hereo.

Keep us posted. I did not know those statistics before. Phylis does great research for us.

Ruth

By: Phylis Feiner Johnson

Phylis Feiner Johnson — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:02:47 +0000

Although this does not specifically answer your question, here’s what I found research from http://my.epilepsy.com/node/654

About 25% to 35% of all children with cerebral palsy have epilepsy. A much smaller proportion of those with epilepsy have cerebral palsy. Epilepsy and cerebral palsy are separate disorders, but both can result from the same abnormality of the brain. Epilepsy does not cause cerebral palsy. Cerebral palsy does not cause epilepsy. The two conditions simply coexist, and are differing signs of a brain abnormality or malfunction.

Then http://www.epilepsyontario.org/client/EO/EOWeb.nsf/web/Cerebral+Palsy+and+Epilepsym goes on to say:

In patients with cerebral palsy and seizures, disruptions of electrical charges in the brain can cause tonic-clonic seizures – where bursts of electricity spread throughout the brain and cause symptoms all over the body – or partial seizures – where disruption is confined to one part of the brain and symptoms are more specific.

Many studies have been conducted regarding the prevalence of epilepsy in patients with cerebral palsy. It was found that in children with CP, 10-32% developed epilepsy. The risk for epilepsy in these children with neurological handicaps remains elevated at least through the second decade of life.

So your 21-year-old son may be one of the lucky ones who is outgrowing his epilepsy. Let’s hope and pray that is the case!

By: Debbie gilson

Debbie gilson — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 12:49:33 +0000

Hi Phylis,
yourweb site is a gift to a mom like me! Thank you for giving a forum for anxious momsto find some informatin. My son is 21 year’s old and has epilepsy. He was seizure free for almost three years until this morning! He is a young man with cerbral palsy too so I was counting my blessings that at lest the seizures were through. but alas… I would love your experience of how long people have gone without one. OUr neurologist although a good man offers no insights … Ido not want to change his medicine, he is on Trileptal and he handles it well. He is on the max dosage though and I will live with one seizure every three yars if need be. thanks for letting me ramble here and I appreciate any info you have on how long people have gone without seizures.
Have a great day and again thank you for creating this web site.

By: Ruth Brown

Ruth Brown — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 15:39:55 +0000

Maybe it is because our grandparents spoiled us.
Ruth

By: Phylis Feiner Johnson

Phylis Feiner Johnson — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 15:09:59 +0000

It’s interesting. On most of the forums where I posted the question, the peoples’ response was their grandfather.

By: Ruth Brown

Ruth Brown — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 02:50:49 +0000

I forgot to mention my father. He kept me in the family. He was great!!

First my grandfather died, I told my fiance (now my husband since 1963) that when my father died I would be disowned from the family.

He told me that it would not happen. Sure enough, when my father died, I was disowned. I was not even allowed to go to his funeral. After all, what if I had a seizure there. That would embarrass the family.

By: Phylis Feiner Johnson

Phylis Feiner Johnson — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 01:22:08 +0000

Unfortunatey, no…

By: Ruth Brown

Ruth Brown — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 18:49:00 +0000

Hi Phylis, do you have any other personal heroes?
Ruth

By: Phylis Feiner Johnson

Phylis Feiner Johnson — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 18:42:23 +0000

I guess we both “lucked out” in the Grandfather department!

By: Ruth Brown

Ruth Brown — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 18:24:28 +0000

For me, it was my grandfather on my mother’s side of the family. It made my mother furious. He told me every year that I visited him that he had set up a separate trust fund for me, my sister and my brother. He knew how the family felt about me. He wanted to make sure I knew about it. It did go over to my brother, my 1/3 of the trust fund. I did not get any inheritance. The fact that he loved me and cared for me made a great difference in my life.

My husband and my son are my second ones. They are my caregivers. They love and care for me very much.
Ruth